Game expert Nick Krauser, author of the textbook Daygame Mastery, sees two different types of women, each designed for a different type of relationship:
I have a tendency to preen on this blog but note some key points.
?Four of these girls had boyfriends and step out on them to fuck me. A fifth is highly likely. They all talk like it’s matter-of-fact and no big deal.
?Three of these girls “caught” me with other girls and didn’t complain. Twice it was before the sex and they came to me anyway. One of those was a virgin.
?All of these girls are using me as their “good sex guy” and don’t make any demands on my time other than the sex.
?I’ve been here one month. I haven’t been clubbing, I don’t have any local friends or “connects”.
This is completely different to the K-selected idea of an MLTR. I don’t have to tell lies to any of them. I make it clear I’m a player and then don’t rub their noses in the details. There are no dinner dates, walks around the park and except for Anya I never hold their hands in public. I’m not installing these girls into apartments like mistresses, buying them iPads, or establishing a position in their social circles. I’ve not met a single friend or family member of any of them. The entire relationship is a one-on-one discreet secret. We share affection and connection – we have true moments of the Love Bubble, it’s not “empty sex” – but it’s not a boyfriend/girlfriend thing.
It’s okay to have K-selected MLTRS… If you can communicate from the very first seconds of the street stop that you’re the Lover then that’s the track you’ll stay on the whole time. Girls have a severe disconnect between Lovers and Providers. Don’t mix the signals. Project R-selection and then you can cut through all of the bullshit that surrounds a K-selection relationship.
I am a fan of game. I think it accomplishes two things of use. First, learned by men who choose K-selected monogamy and child-rearing, it makes their lives infinitely easier, and their wives much happier. It will reduce divorce, make children happier, and help to increase K-strategist reproductive rates.
Case studies like this, which can only come from Game experts in the field, plying the more r-sexual lifestyle, are also instructive to the single K-males looking for marriage. None of these women’s boyfriends, save one, would believe their girls are betraying them, and the last one only suspects there may have been a minor transgression. The girls who do this do not advertise.
This is the worst nightmare for a man to wake up married to, and these girls are not uncommon. Krauser alone can open up his garage door, and a score of them will come tumbling out, and he is not even in America, where free resources have probably deteriorated matters further.
Your best chance to spot an r-selected reproductive strategy is to look for other r-selected traits. If you have a man-jawed female, certain she can beat any man at anything, you may end up rearing another man’s child. Likewise, a woman who is triggered by the idea of Darwinian selection working in society to confer advantages on the superior, may also end up giving birth to a little Krauser who you will be on the hook for rearing. Poor rearing urges, such as any woman who has an abortion, or is fine with children being taught about homosexuality in early childhood, would also be an exceedingly poor choice.
But to have an opportunity to make the choice, you need to open your vistas, and expand your pool of potential mates. You need to learn game. To that end, books like Daygame Mastery should be required reading for all young K-selected males looking for a high quality mate and a solid family structure.
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I wouldn’t get too wound up about assuming all girls are like this. I remember Krauser once publicising his closing rate as around 3%. That is for every 100 girls he tries to get to adopt r sex only 3 will bite.
However this study
http://rsbl.royalsocietypublishing.org/content/11/2/20140977
Does indicate that there seems to be a faithful and an unfaithful population in humans. With about 60% of men and 40% of women falling into the unfaithful population. A good index to tell which population they fall into is digit ratio.
Very good observations. My main point is, I have seen a couple of good guys go through divorce, and both said it was the worst thing in their lives. One, who was one of the toughest guys I knew was just shaking his head, saying, “It is so painful…” He had a small business he had built painstakingly, so I assume the stress of seeing it torn apart after working so hard was agonizing.
So I just want to drive home the point that selecting the mother of your children is the time to be the most paranoid you will ever be, so when you commit you are absolutely sure. I know at 19, I would never have believed Heartiste or Krauser’s stories. But it turns out I was wrong, and what I would never have believed was true.
I definitely agree that when it comes to selecting a wife even the smallest red flag is enough to deserve rejection of the woman. Men bear all the risk in this scenario, and women can be truly, evil whores.
It’s the product of a society where divorce is not frowned on and government provides certain benefits for single mothers. The incentives are just there for her to cheat on you and divorce you and socially/legally there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s frightening, and I don’t see any future where I could get married in this climate. Thanks for the book rec, I’m reading Mystery’s two books at the moment as well.